A Heart to Heart!

A conversation between friends…

M…that person makes me feel unseen and unheard… sometimes I feel like she doesn’t even acknowledge that I’m in the room

T… your feelings can lie to you

M…she talks down to me and makes me feel like I am not smart

T… no one should be given the power to make you feel any particular way. The feelings that come from inside you are under your control. Do not grant others any power there.

M…well why does it happen every time I am with her?

T… could she be triggering some insecurities?

M…I’m not insecure 

T… SERIOUSLY! We are truth seekers remember… take off the mask. You should know by now that I will not accept the lies.

M… ok, I suppose it could be a trigger.

T… is it possible that your friend is innocent? That she’s just being herself and you took some things personally?

M… I suppose

T… can you dig deeper and discover what is really upsetting you?

M…she doesn’t really know me

T… and is that her fault?

M…maybe? She doesn’t seem to want to listen.

T… seem? Is it possible that you don’t seem to want to share?

M… possibly

T… could it be that you are both trying your best, but the airways are filled with distracting sounds.

M… I suppose

T…could you give grace to yourself and to your friend?

M…I suppose.

T… ok, so how about getting out of bed, splashing some water on your face and giving thanks for this beautiful new day!

Remember how much I love you! Remember that Messy voice will try to influence you back to your insecurities. I am your Truth teller. I do not come into your thoughts uninvited. I am with you always but you will need to choose what influencer you will trust.

Your Messy Mind, the one who thinks she knows or me, the Truth Teller?

You can’t have it both ways!

You have been created for a purpose!

and let me remind you once again

I love you!

Now go out and do what you have been made to do!